what should i do??

Posted in Pregnancy Planning about 1 year ago, 2 replies

"I am 4mos pregnant with twins and the father doesnt want me to keep them what should i do?"
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submitted by Brazil in Oxnard,CA
I am really sorry to hear that the father doesn't want you to keep the twins. It sounds like this may not be the best timing for you? Are you married to the father? If not, do you think you'd want to be a single parent? Do you have a support system that could help you?

If not, I would love it if you would give them up for adoption. You may be surprised to find out how many people suffer from infertility and would love to adopt. My husband and I have been trying for the past year and a half, had 5 IVF cycles, and 3 miscarriages. One of the miscarriages was with twins.

I pray that you're able to make the best decision for you and your twins. God bless you!
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submitted by Michaele in Lake Balboa, CA @ November 16, 2008 - 11:44 PM
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Thanks so much for the advise...no we are not married...but i have 3 kids already...i was thinkin about adoption...but i just want to find that right couple for my babies...i would like to keep them but i know that i would not be able to provide for them they way they deserve...so i am seriously considering adoption...i just hope i can find that right couple.
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submitted by brazil in oxnard,CA @ November 17, 2008 - 10:43 PM

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